Relationship with Others
Embracing Our Shared Humanity
Every person is more alike than different, united by a common humanity. As a physician, I’ve come to value how much we share in common beneath the surface. The layout of our organs is remarkably consistent from person to person, and our major body systems—like the circulatory, nervous, respiratory, and immune systems—function in similar ways for all of us. We process food and expel waste in the same manner, our cells possess nearly identical structures, and we all depend on the same essential nutrients to keep our bodies operating smoothly. We inhale and exhale the same gases, highlighting just how alike we truly are. The more I reflect, the more I recognize the countless ways our physical makeup unites us.
What makes us different mainly come from our perceptions about God, other people’s opinions about us and how we view ourselves. Recognizing this shared foundation helps us approach relationships with empathy and openness. The way we perceive God and ourselves forms the basis of how we interact with others; when we value ourselves and understand God's love, we are better equipped to care for those around us.
Benefits of Healthy Relationships
Healthy relationships do more than just make us feel good; they nurture our minds and bodies, and strengthen our communities. Positive connections foster trust, empathy, forgiveness, and emotional resilience. These qualities not only support individual well-being but also create environments where people can thrive together.
The Role of Unconditional Love
Loving others unconditionally is a cornerstone of faith-based relationships. While human love often comes with conditions, God calls us to a higher standard—one that requires His help and grace. When we view God positively and appreciate our own worth, we are empowered to love others in ways that goes beyond our natural limitations.
Mark 12:30-31 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. ‘The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.
The Power of Intentional Relationships
Building healthy relationships is an ongoing journey that enriches our lives and communities. By embracing our shared humanity, loving others as God intends, and applying practical tools and skills, we nurture environments where everyone can flourish. Intentional relationship-building is essential for both personal growth and the well-being of those around us.